Navigating the world as a fat person may be difficult – even more so as a fat femme [woman]. In a society were fat is synonymous to low self-esteem and unhealthiness, it is a delight to find women who are comfortable and unapologetic in their plus size skin. These women wear what they want – whether it be tight or loose fitting – and eat what they want – ice-cream or vegetables. Even though the media is making great strides and showing more fat bodies, there is still the stereotype of the “good” or “ideal” fat body. This preferred body is far from the reality because just like everyone else, fat bodies come in a diversity of shapes and sizes. It is important that we recognize people for more than their outside appearance. At the end of the day, being confident and unapologetic in your own skin requires self love.